These days people have no shortage of places to connect with friends, family, co-workers, influencers, etc. These spaces are developed by a select minority of people to attract as much of the majority of users. This increases the size of those communities, but not necessarily the quality. These ‘Social Networks’ offer ‘free’ features people can use as long as they agree to give up some of their privacy. Typically, those spaces are filled with toxic people, and content aimed at people like us … Queer people.
I started to suspect I was gay that summer. Purple Rain was released and I remember it playing when he and I stayed up all night talking. I had sex with a girl the fall that followed, and I had to remember him fucking me to orgasm with her. I did not continue to explore my sexuality until much later in life.When first began to suspect I was gay
Now that I have the attention of all you gay romantic lovebirds, I’m talking about all those apps that are too numerous to list here and likely you’ve already tried. So this piece is my opinion and not based on loads of research, but I can speak from my experience being in a gay relationship for 20 years with some of those years being married to my husband and including the numerous times I wanted to throw in the towel when things got tough.